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Saturday, October 6, 2018

Allah ( swt) is Oft-Returning

My dear reader try to read this story

and at last try to peruse other items in this site.

It is a true life story.

A sick lady dreamt that God brought to her
water to drink and when she
got up in the morning, she was
healed. She saw a written note
beside her saying.

"God is one and true God.

When comes the Help of Allah, and Victory,

And you do see the people enter Allah's Religion in crowds,

Celebrate the praises of thy Lord, and pray for His Forgiveness: For He is Oft-Returning (in Grace and Mercy)"

She told everybody what
happened to her.

A police officer heard about it and sent it to many persons by sms. After some days,
he was promoted at work.

Another man received this
message and deleted and ignored it, he had
great loss for days. Please try
to share this message to as many
people as you can and something good
will happen to you in a short period of time.

Sorry for disturbing you, God says, "I am your Lord, I really have time for you, I love
 you and I always bless you. Give me at least 30 minutes of your time, dont pray only but just glorify Me."

Share this message to  the whole
world before being too late. Do this and Allah will make you realize your needs.

A blessing is on your way. Don't ignore this
message,you are being put into a test and He is preparing  great things for you in your life. If you trust in God,

Show this message and tomorrow will be a nice day for you.

Don't cut the chain, tell friends of this site.

Sorry to ask you this question. Is God really first in your life? If yes then stop all what you are doing now and direct others into this site  to read what God will do tomorrow for them. God loves   us.  And   believe   me after  7 days   your   wish   will   come   true.

But   if   you   ignore   it,   you   will   be   on   your   own  regret for   7 yrs.   Please  do   it   with   faith   because  it   works.

Thursday, October 4, 2018

You are the only stranger in that family you call yours.

My fellow men, work hard  so that in your old age you have something for yourself .

Forget about the children and their mother! You are the only stranger in that family you call yours.

That house is for your wife and kids !

My grandfather once told me that a married man is like a bulldozer that builds a road, does it very nicely but when the road is completed , they bring a heavy loader and carry the bulldozer away claiming it will spoil the road!! That Caterpillar is never allowed to step on the road it built !  Same case to a married man.

You deny yourself of luxuriously life , get loans , wear used clothes to see your children go to high school  and college because we believe that the only heritage you can give your children is a quality education because there are no more land!!

 When the children hit teenage, now the Father is dispensable (easily replaced), most of these women poison the children against their father, using language like "If it wasn't for me  you wouldn't have studied, he was only interested in alcohol and women!! Now the bulldozer is about to be carried away!!!

Once the children start working , the father has retired and when the children come home for visiting, the poor father is given two hundred infront of the mother , while the mother pulls them to the kitchen and the father doesn't know what mama has been given!

Once the children drive off, the old man is  asked to buy sugar with the two hundred unless he wants to drink sugarless tea!!

These are some of the reasons why men die early and leave widows behind suffering if not enjoying !! I have seen mothers fly abroad to visit their children while the father is left at home looking after their two cows, ever wondered why?

That poison spread by mothers against the  father, has started working!!

My fellow men work hard and save something for yourself because nowadays aging without good money in your saving account is  almost like a death sentence !!! Wake up struggle while you can before attaining old age.

No, my husband does not make me happy.

During a class at Fresno Pacific University, a speaker asked one of the spouses in the audience:

"Does your husband make you happy?"

At this moment, the husband stood up straighter, showing complete confidence. He knew his wife would say yes, because she had never complained about anything during their marriage.

However, his wife answered the question with a resounding "No." "No, my husband does not make me happy."

The husband was baffled, but his wife continued:

"My husband never made me happy, and he does not make me happy. I am happy."

"Whether I am happy or not is dependent not on him, but on me. I am the only person on whom my happiness depends.

I choose to be happy in every situation and every moment of my life, for if my happiness depended on another person, thing or circumstance, I would be in serious trouble.

Everything that exists in this life constantly changes: the human being, the riches, my body, the climate, my boss, the pleasures, the friends, and my physical and mental health. I could quote an endless list.

I need to decide to be happy regardless of anything else that happens. Whether I own a lot or a little, I am happy! Whether I'm going out or staying home alone, ​​I'm happy! Whether I am rich or poor, I am happy!

I am married, but I was already happy when I was single.
I'm happy for myself.

I love my life not because my life is easier than anyone else's, but because I have decided to be happy as an individual. I am responsible for my happiness.

When I take this obligation from my husband and anyone else, I free them from the burden of carrying me on their shoulders. It makes everyone's life much lighter.

And that's how I've had a successful marriage for so many years."

Never give anyone else the responsibility to control your happiness. Be happy, even if it's hot, even if you're sick, even if you do not have money, even if someone has hurt you, even if someone does not love you and even if you do not value yourself.

That goes for women and men of all ages

Wednesday, October 3, 2018

How did you live at your time grand-pa?

A youngster asked his grandfather...
"Grandpa! How did you people live before with

No technology
No aeroplanes
No internet
No Computer
No Dramas
No TV
No aircons
No cars
No Mobile phones.

Grandpa replied
Just like how you people living today...

No Prayer
No compassion
No honour
No respect
No character
No shame
No modesty"

We, the people born between 1950-1989 are the blessed ones...
Our life is a living proof.

While playing and riding bicycle, we never bothered to wear helmets.

After school time we played until its dusk but never watched  (TV) by locking up ourselves in a room.

We played only with our real friends, not with NET friends.
     
If we ever felt thirsty, we used to drink tap water but never searched for bottled water.
         
We never got ill even after sharing the same juice with four friends.
         
We were never put on weight even after eating plate full of  rice everyday.
           
Nothing happened to our feet even after roaming bare foot.

We never used any health supplements to keep ourselves healthy.
           
We used to create our own toys and play with them.
           
 Our parents were not rich. They just searched for and gave only love.. not any worldly material.
           
We never had cellphones, DVDs, Play stations, XBoxes, video games, Personal computers, internet, chat but we had many real friends.

 We used to visit our friend's home uncalled and enjoyed food with them. We never had to call them and ask their permission to visit their home.
         
Relatives were near to us so our hearts and souls were happy.

We may have been in Black and White photos but you can find good colourful memories in those photos........

 We are a unique and the most understanding generation, because we are the last generation who listened to their parents....
and also the first which have to listen to their children.

THIS IS THE WORLD WE LIVE IN.

When a man has a good car it attracts more ladies to him. When a lady has a good car it repels guys away from her. This is the world we live in.

A teenage boy impregnates his teenage girlfriend. The girl drops out of school, the boy continues his education. This is the word we live in.

A guy catches his girlfriend with another guy, he fights his girlfriend. A lady catches her guy with another lady, she fights the other lady. This is the word we live in.

The older a man becomes, the higher the number of ladies available for him. The older a lady becomes the fewer the number of guys available for her. This is the world we live in.

A 76 year old man can still marry a 26 year old lady. A 36 year old lady is tagged too old to get married. This is the world we live in.

A man divorces his wife today and the next day he is dating other ladies. Six months later he is married. While the divorced woman is labeled a divorcee and remains single six years later. This is the world we live in.

A married man is caught in bed with another woman, his wife is asked to forgive him and move on. A married woman is caught in bed with another man, the husband asks her to leave his house. This is the world we live in.

A man gets transferred by his company to another state, the entire family relocates with him. The woman gets transferred to another state, she goes alone or resigns from the job. This is the world we live in.‎

If a man rises to be the CEO of the company, he got there by hard work and determination. If a woman rises to be the CEO of the company, she is suspected to get there by sleeping with the Board members. This is the world we live in.

Facts like these make some ladies angry at the world and channeling the anger towards men. For me, that is not the right card to play. Understanding the world you live in should help you play a better game. Playing a better game involves answering the following questions.‎

What can you change?
What can you avoid?
What can you live with?‎

You may not be able to stop the rain from falling but you can carry an umbrella with you. That is what personal leadership is about. 'A tout à l'heure.'

Never joke with women

A lady was very sick in her bed and asked her husband
"Honey, how long will you take to marry another lady in case I die?"
Then the husband said "Honestly, my love, I can only bring another lady after your grave is completely dry"
After few days, the lady died and the husband kept on visiting her graveyard on daily basis,.This took two years and the grave looked wet always.
One evening as he visited the graveyard, he met his brother in-law at the grave with an empty bucket and asked "Hey James what are you doing here?"
Then his brother in-law was like
I am here to fulfill my only sister's wish. She said "I should be coming here daily to wet her grave"
The man fainted.

Never joke with women, even in death, their jealousy still smells.  Have a smiling day.

THE SNAKE AND THE SAW

A snake penetrated into a carpentry workshop.  As it slipped, it passed over a saw and got slightly wounded. Suddenly, it turned and bit the saw, and biting the saw, the snake seriously got wounded in its mouth!

Then not understanding what was happening and thinking that the saw was attacking "him," _it decided to roll around the saw to suffocate it with all its body by squeezing it with all its strength, but it ended up being killed by the saw!!!_

Sometimes we react in anger to hurt those who have harmed us, but we realize later that after all *we are hurting ourselves.*

*_In life it is better sometimes to ignore situations, ignore people, ignore their behavior, their words._*

*Sometimes it is better not to react* so as not to suffer consequences that can sometimes be deadly or harmful.

*Do not let hate take over your life* because love is stronger than anything.

*Keep Smiling and Spread Happiness.....*
*LAWS OF NATURE.

.... The food we eat, has to be digested and then thrown out of body in 24 hours, else we will fall ill.

.... The water we drink, gets in our body and is thrown out in 4 hours, else we will fall ill.

.... The air we breathe, has to be thrown out in 1 minute, else we will die.

What about negative emotions like hatred, anger, jealousy, insecurity ... we hold in our body for days, months and years.

If these negative emotions are not thrown out regularly it props up into psycho-somatic diseases.

And prayers are safest way to dissolve these emotion.